Independence Day is not the only time to think about India
We are living in a magnificent digital age, and the fact is, that the teenagers possess more knowledge than their parents. However, this overflow of knowledge has also led to confusion and chaos around the country; kids, as well as adults, cannot understand the importance of patriotism in India. We have started drifting away from patriotism, but probably, we have begun moving towards extremism. All of us need to take informed decisions about what we want from our lives concerning career, personal life, and professional life.
Despite everything we do, we should not forget that we are indebted to our nation regardless of our religion and caste. India is such an incredible country that has created its history based on its large-heartedness. We have never turned anyone away, whoever came to us asking for shelter and made India their home. Still, we find almost everyone forgetting the great quality of life that our country has given us in addition to the freedom of speech and livelihood. In very few countries around the world we do get such freedom to live and fulfill our dreams.
This time on the occasion of Independence Day in 2017, I thought of writing about everything that I have done till date to inculcate nationalism in my kids’ thoughts. Even before my kids were born, I had realized that I am going to have a tough time raising them. It’s easy for kids these days to forget their values and just enjoy their sense of being, living with friends, especially during their teenage. Even I had my share of rebelliousness when I was in my 20s, but it was milder than that of today’s generation. Anyway, coming back to the topic, I used a few creative tactics to make sure that my kids do not dodge their identity of being Indian wherever they go and feel at least some sense of patriotism, if not much.
The Meaning
First of all, it important for the kids to understand that patriotism doesn’t mean just to lay your life for the country; it is much more than that. While doing your daily activities on your job, in the market, or even walking around the streets; we need to understand that we should preserve our nation. At the age of three, my child learned the first lesson of patriotism when I didn’t let him throw the filth on the road. At an early age, we need to make our children understand crucial as well as petty matters so that they can form the right opinion early in their lives.
The National Symbols
How can we expect someone to respect our national flag when we cannot do it ourselves? How can we expect our kids to stand for our national anthem when we do not do it ourselves in their presence? The kids learn what they see; they will learn good manners if they see the same, and vice versa. We need to speak to them about respecting the national symbols and the Indian Flag. Whenever you see the Indian Flag lying disrespectfully anywhere, just pick it up and discard it gracefully, if needed.
The Teaching Part
It’s not easy to teach kids when you don’t know the facts yourself. It was hard for me, in the beginning, to learn about every great Indian leader, but Google made my task easier. Wherever we go, I try to find out more about the history of the place or take help from a local tourist guide. My daughter, Myra, is twelve years old now, which is a good enough phase to learn a little about people and places. Even the name of a great historical leader is sufficient for the kids to learn more about them when they go home.
Places and things teach lessons
Just not to sound too boring, I ask rather than tell Myra about the photograph of a famous personality we see on a currency note, an airport, an administrative building, or a highway. She obviously answers in negative most of the times, but I know it creates curiosity in her mind. I explain about such people as much as I am aware and the rest, I ask her to research about it while we travel.
Using the traveling time
Not every time I can ask her to learn and mug up facts about people and history, but going in a Self-Drive Luxury Car Hire is the best time to do so. She sits comfortably in the backseat and loves to read on her tab or books. I started taking Luxury Self-Drive Car Hire since last year because my family used to be quite uncomfortable in the regular sedans on the hills. Sitting in a comfortable car gives us the cozy time to talk about productive things vis-à-vis family, profession, and our country and society.
Special days
Even if we don’t celebrate days like Martyr’s Day, Kisan Diwas, National Youth Day, etc., we can always take out five minutes to learn about their significance. The home page of Google has made the task even easier; we can find the information in the Google Doodle given on the home page of most important occasions around the world. We just need to click the creative doodle that catches our attention and learn about the topic in a jiffy.
Active participation
I have never stopped Myra from participating in any kinds of celebrations occurring in our society, club, or her school. Just a little dance, singing a poem or a song lets kids learn about the significance of the day. I let her take part in everything she likes, and if she comes to me asking about something, I have to leave my work and answer her queries, which I don’t mind if I am not busy.
Watching TV
Myra has got the complete freedom under the guidance of her parents to watch her favorite programs. However, we make sure that we watch the live telecast of the parades of Independence Day, Republic Day, and speeches of national leaders whenever we can. Even if she is too young to understand the gravity of matters, such programs and activities register on her subconscious mind and she can learn more about things when she grows up.
Our duties and rights
Kids are taught about their duties and rights in school, out of which, most people remember just about rights when they grow up and conveniently forget about duties. As I mentioned above, it is our responsibility to make our kids grow into responsible beings by fulfilling their duties while enjoying their rights in the society.
Accept diversity
India has always been a land of diverse religions and cultures. We, as adults, need to recognize various cultures around us and develop tolerance towards them. Similarly, we need to teach our kids about the same on a regular basis. If we don’t understand the importance of time, we might find it slipping away from our hands when we find our kids making a mess of their lives.
I stress the fact again that patriotism is not a matter of just one day; it is the affair of a lifetime. India has given a beautiful life to its citizens, which many nations have not been able to do. If we cannot feel the gratitude for our country, we may never do so for even our parents. Hopefully, the upcoming Independence Day reinstates the sense of patriotism in my daughter, and she takes it a notch higher than just a holiday.